How is Niamh?
She’s a very strong and brave girl. We owe a lot to her, along with Len she gets us through each day.
Bringing smiles to us in the darkest hours ❤️
We truly wouldn’t know what to do, what to live for without them.
She understands so much, knows when to cheer us up and give us a hug 🙏❤️
But, there are moments that she herself needs these hugs, needs her questions answered.
We find her sitting quietly, ask her if she’s ok.
And she asks
“Where is Edie?”
“Why did she have to go to heaven last week?”
“Where is heaven?”
“Is heaven nice?”
“I miss her playing with me”
These are questions a child shouldn’t have to ask about their sibling, that parents shouldn’t have to try and find the right answer, and struggle to answer without completely breaking down 💔💔
But, she’s ok. We are all in the process, we don’t leave her out, this is her life too.
Just minutes after Edie left us I went out to speak with Niamh. I explained how we wouldn’t see Edie again.
“But Mummy, ‘course we will”
“Well we all have to die and go to heaven”
These are wise words from a 5 year old❤️
#DIPGAwareness #EndDIPG #DontForget